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Sunday, January 6th 2013, 8:06am

really nervous

Hi everyone,

So here goes. DH & I are going for number 2. I start to DR for my 2nd FET on Thursday. I know it can work as DS is a frostie but I'm real ll y nervous this time. Perhaps the age factor is on my mind as I'm 41 (although was 38 at time of EC), or maybe it is just general stress - upheaval at work & a toddler who is having a few sleep & separation anxiety issues after having chicken pox in early December. Anyway have booked an acupuncture session for Thursday too, partly to help me relax & stop stressing & partly because I had it during my 1st FET & don't want to tempt fate by not doing it this time.

That's me! I know you will understand.

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bab11 Alexander James 17/10/10

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Sunday, January 6th 2013, 9:19am

Hi Elisa, completely understand, it is so normal to be nervous, and scared and apprehensive and nervous, on this emotional rollercoaster. But you know you have great frosties because you have your lovely little one, have PMA that this will work, why shouldn't it, it did before. I have always been told that your age doesn't matter, it's your age at the time of EC that's relevant.

Sending you soooo much luck!! Are you in the FET thread too? Xxxx

1st ICSI - Oct 08 - :BFP:!!! DD born July 2009 : D
1st FET - May 11 - BFN
2nd FET - Sept 11 - BFN
3rd FET - Jan 12 - :BFP: DD2 born October 2012 : D
2nd ICSI - May 18 - BFN
4th FET - Sept 18 - BFP but Ectopic MTX 7+4
FET - Mar 19 - abandoned after final scan due to fibroid
5th FET - June 19 BFN


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Sunday, May 20th 2018, 7:04pm

Hi. You really do need to relax. you are already a mother. So there's nothing to worry about much. You will conceive again soon. Just be positive. It has an effect trust me. Good luck with this. Stop obsessing over it.

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Sunday, May 20th 2018, 7:23pm

Hey there. How are you doing? I hope its all good. I am glad that you are going for it. Don't stress yourself. BE positive. It will work out. Take care. good luck.



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Sunday, May 27th 2018, 2:39pm

May be total coincidence however a friend of mine got pregnant via IVF PGS NGS that she combined with acupuncture

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