What did I ever do without this site. So much wisdom from all you lovely ladies.
I will speak to her myself first. I don't think she would cope with surrogacy, she has 2 gorgeous girls, and loves kids, I think she would struggle giving birth and not taking the baby home, and I know how it feels to give birth and come home with nothing so I just wouldn't go there.
The other option there is at my clinic is, she can donate the eggs, her eggs are given to someone else and I go to the top of their ED list. This was offered when we did the first ED cycle with my sister.
I have to let DH work things out in his head, I have planted the seed now.
My sister has told her she would have to go to the a councelor and she accepts this and her husband is apparently on board with this too.
I have thought about it not working, there are no guarantees with any of it but it's oh so tempting.
I have to be sensible about it all I know.
So much to think about and you have given me more things to consider my lovelies.
Thank you all so much for answering me, and caring