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Tuesday, August 10th 2010, 8:00pm

Great news Louis2! Hope you get some good news Gemmab and good luck for Thursday Kiwimaya
Alibird, I've just ov'd too so will join you in the 2WW!

Been to GP's today, off for an internal scan, then referral to consultant. Good news is that my wonderful DH has agreed to go to the docs for his tests, I'm so pleased!

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Wednesday, August 11th 2010, 7:59am

Louis2, glad all went well with baseline scan. Good luck with first jab tomorrow and xfingers

ET on Monday, ooh how exciting

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Wednesday, August 11th 2010, 8:01am

RM, we seem to be so in sinc with our cycles. Glad things are moving forward and DH has agreed to SA, it is difficult for them but not half as invasive as our tests.

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Wednesday, August 11th 2010, 10:54pm

Ahh! Gemma, my little boy is 1 on the 14th, yours is not far behind! He looks like a sweetheart. E is a happy cheeky little chap, very excited for his birthday. Any news from the consultant??

Good luck with the 2ww Alibird and Runningmum. I think we've timed well this month - probably one of the best tries after E's born but it is really strange ttc with a different mindset, after all the years of heartache. V refreshing but a little nervous. We use a fertility monitor as I got fed up over analysing things that you have to interpret yourself. I've also stopped breastfeeding now for 2 months so think my hormones are now more of an even keel, though doubt DP would agree!

When will you be having an internal scan Runningman? And has DH booked for those tests?? After all the tests and interventions and child birth I'm cruel and have limited sympathy for DP and what he was required to do for the IVF! :biggrin:

Wow Louis. Great results from the scan. Hope you're not finding it to nervewracking. How are you with the injections??

Yes, we're off to the clinic tomorrow. We're not telling anyone about the FET because with the one frostie chances are small and it was a bit difficult managing other peoples expectations with the IVF. For example I can remember trying to explain to my mum that I could not tell people I was pregnant at ET when she asked me in an excited 'I'm going to be a grandparent'.

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 8:07am

Hey ya'all, any news today Gem?

Louis2, are you jabbing am or pm?

Kiwimaya, good luck with consultant today.

Well, my cousin called in yesterday (we are very close, like sisters) and anounced she is pg with #2. I am very happy for her as I know she wanted another with her new partner but they weren't trying and she isn't very happy as they aren't even living together as they are in the process of looking for somewhere out of the area. I can honestly say that I did not get that familiar sick feeling that I used to get and was genuinely happy but I did think 'I wish it was me'. This is the 3rd announcement in the last 2 weeks and I have a feeling we are going to get a 4th this weekend. It feels like an epidemic :snigger:

Maybe this means that I have accepted the fact that Will will be our only child, I am sad for him but at the moment I feel ok about that. This is completely fresh ground and I don't quite know what to think or do, ttc has been such a major part of our life for so long, how do I stop?

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 8:33am

Morning girls,

Today is day one if stimms! I'm working late though today so as I have to do the injection between 6-8 my dh will have to bring it to my work for me! We don't have a fridge at work, excited today!!

I've got to remember to prime the pen then jab! I don't mind the injections really I've dine so many before, although these are particularly big as I'm doing 450 gonal f so it's not a quick jab, well worth it to bring us our much wanted baby x :smile:

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 11:16am

OMG I still don't know- this really isn't fair now.

We are also trying to keep the amount of people who know to a minimum!!!

Good luck everyone today.x

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 1:12pm

I can't even tell you how many times I have phoned the clinic over the last two and half weeks!!!

I am ready to scream and pull my hair out.

Why can't they just tell me???????

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 5:33pm

gemmab - sorry you're still waiting, perhaps you should go to your clinic and refuse to leave until they tell you the answer!

Today is stimming day! You won't believe what I did this morning! I was told to only sniff one this morning and one tonight instead of normal 2 in am and 2 in pm. Guess what! I sniffed 2 this morning!!! so used to doing it I didn't even think! I rang the clinic and they said it was ok just only do 1 tonight.

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 6:45pm

The embryologist hasn't even looked so no further on than we were three weeks ago.

Will give it over the weekend and ring again on Monday.

As you can imagine I am not happy!!!!!!!!

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 8:13pm

Well clinic just phoned and says there is none left!!

I asked when it was defrosted and she said when I last had tx in dec 2008.

I said that can't be the case cause we paid for freezing feb last year so she looking into it

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Thursday, August 12th 2010, 10:13pm

Blimey Gemma, I can't believe how much they are mucking you around. Its not good enough, its should be a relatively straight forward question that should maybe take a few days to get a clear answer. I hope you find out one way or another after the weekend.

louis, here's hoping you only sniffed once this evening! Was it injection tonight?

Our appointment went ok I suppose. We had to take our little one with us as we both had to go and no-one knows we are back there. I was ultra conscious of all the other people waiting there. I know how hard it can be in those sort of waiting rooms with someone with a baby waiting next to you. DP waited outside with him (the clinic is in its own isolated separate building) and I beckoned him when we were called and they went straight out afterwards.

I had a scan and the consultant thinks I may have a polyp, but as I'm just post mid cycle she wants to check again in 2 weeks at the beginning of my next cycle incase she was wrong. My lining was quite thick as well. This could set us back a while if it is a polyp as it will need sorting out first - fortunately via a referral to the n.h.s.

Apart from that when do go ahead with the FET its straight on with it, no meds and no practice cycle. This will make things a lot easier, especially fitting work around and the secrecy.

I'm baking a cake tonight for my boy's first birthday on Saturday. I'm praying it works! Best go and check its not burning.

Take care

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Friday, August 13th 2010, 8:33am

First injection done, I didn't atually won't to put it in but when I did it didn't hurt so it was ok. I had a really bad nights sleep though, anyone else had this porblem on gonal f? I can't remember it happening before perhaps just a coincendence, still struggling with the night hot flushes!

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Friday, August 13th 2010, 8:48am

Well finally have an answer this morning after a sleepless night.

Embryologist phoned and we were right we do have 2 left so itsall systemsgo.

So when clinic opens will trybook an appointment before we go on holiday in three weeks and then hopefully start count down in october.

Must get sorted with my healthy eating, vitamins, brazil nuts and pineapple juice lol

Thanks for all the support.

Jen I had a polyp removed before my last cycle and had no problems with it- in factI felt like I had had a good clean out and felt great.

Louis- well done on first injection. When is your first scan?

Ali- how is the 2ww?

Well better get KJ out of bed and dessed as i got leave for work soon.x

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Friday, August 13th 2010, 8:25pm

Great news gemmab

my first scan on Wednesday 18th so not too long to wait. Does anyone know off it's ok to put hot water bottle straight on after Injection or should I wait a bit?

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Saturday, August 14th 2010, 9:51am

Hi Girls

Louis you nearly there then for your first scan

I tried all day yesterday to make an appointment and not got any joy. Hoping to get one before we go on holiday in three weeks.

Would it not be better to put ice on?

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Saturday, August 14th 2010, 9:59am

Hi Gemma
Are you going on your usual holiday and if so will you be visiting Leeds so I can see you :snigger:

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Saturday, August 14th 2010, 10:12am

No Nicole we are going to the canaries for 2 weeks- can't wait get kj on the beach.

Taking my mum and dad for the first week so they can babysit!!! lol

Not sure when we will be up in leeds hard to juggle work, kj's commitments, and step kids.

Will defo let you know when we there though and we will meet up

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Saturday, August 14th 2010, 8:00pm

Glad to hear things are moving forward louis2!

I'm having problems getting appointments too gemmab. Having finally convinced DH to go to the GP for refferal, they don't do appointments at the moment, you have to phone between 8.30 and 9 and they will give try and fit you in, first two morning's I tried they had nothing but emergency appointments and the next day they could only offer me times he couldn't do.....hopefully I'll have more luck next week!

Happy birthday to your DS kiwimaya, hope the cake turned out well!

Am fed up of the 2WW already, am going on holiday a week today and know that AF is going to arrive and spoil things! Also have an outbreak of spots, very annoying!

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Sunday, August 15th 2010, 10:08pm

Good luck to all you ladies with your various stages of tx, I am here to say goodbye as I have come to the decision that TTC #2 is now over for us. With my hand on my heart can honestly say that it now feels enough for me, my journey is over.

I would like to wish you all success and happiness for the future and hope and prey that you all your dreams come true. I will pop in once in a while to check how you are all doing but feel that I need to leave FZ for a while at least, while I get my head around leaving this rollarcoaster behind, after it being such a amjor part of our lives for so many years.

Love to you all blokiss

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Monday, August 16th 2010, 10:35am

Oh Ali- thats a brave and difficult decision and I respect you for it.

Me and KJ wish you and William all the luck for the future and hope you will keep us updated on his progress.

Sending you a huge blowkiss

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Monday, August 16th 2010, 10:16pm

Hi Everyone
Wow - we've had a busy weekend with our little one turning 1. It felt like Christmas in the summer. Lovely day and E was just so happy throughout. Bless him.

Ali Bird - that must have been such a difficult decision to make. You've got to really mean it and mentally that's a scary place so I can't blame you for needed time out from fertilityzone. I wish you all the best for the future. xxx

Gemma, great news that there's some left. I'm with you with the healthy eating. I've been just not caring this past year what with all the abstinence before E was conceived and born. I'm starting at the beginning of next AF. There's been an unbelievable amount of cake round here recently there's been no point!
Sorry to hear that you had a polyp but reassuring to hear that it was sorted and you felt better afterwards. We've been so busy that I haven't thought about but today I started to do the usual google searches and feel a little bit stressed about it. It still needs to be confirmed - going back next week - but I have a feeling that the consultant was right.... But i'm sure it will be fine, its just another hurdle to get over so getting myself up and dusting myself off - should be used to that by now! Would be nice if something could run simply.

Oh, Nicole - I lived in Leeds until 2 years ago! What clinic are you at as we had some consutlations/proceedures there? I would really recommend Dr Rutherford, and there's someone I would steer clear off!

Louis - not sure about hot water bottle - did you find out? How many to go?? When's your scan?

xx

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Tuesday, August 17th 2010, 4:39pm

Not really a rant just trying to shift this pain and emptyness after yet another BFN. Yes I've had children and spent years as a single mum bringing up my dear boys, having to put up with their asshole of a father. But now I've found someone truely wonderful, who wants children with me and to be there for all of us. I would love to have the pleasure of a family life. To hear the word daddy in the house again. To go to xmas plays and sports days with someone next to me who is as proud as I am. In many ways I am so lucky and I never take that for granted. If this path we've taken comes to a dead end then I know I will always have my boys and a partner who loves me which is so much more than other people have.
No-one knows we're going through IVF as being an older mum (37) I'm fed up with hearing "are you mad?" or "why on earth do you want more kids just as you're getting rid of the ones you've got?" ...getting rid of, what a charming way of putting it.

Well I'm not mad, I do want more children and right now I feel as though I'm never again going to feel that softness of a babys skin or that wonderful smell they have as you hold them. See a scrunched up face wiping an itchy nose in my skirt or feel little arms wrap around me in precious moments.
Sorry, it turned out to be a rant after alll

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Tuesday, August 17th 2010, 5:03pm

Jen- where abouts in Leeds you from- my husband is Yorkshire born and bred.

Glad E had a nice party- can't wait for KJ's.

Number one a/f started today so 2 more to go and then tx here we come lol

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Tuesday, August 17th 2010, 8:55pm

Gemma my DP is Leeds born and bred, I'm from the south and lived there for 10 years. He's from Horsforth.
Congratulations on the AF i think!
xx

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Friday, August 20th 2010, 8:44am

Ali - I'm pleased you have made your decision, best wishes for the future!
Gemma - glad things are going to plan for you, not long to go
Mayflower - oh dear I'm sorry to hear you are fed up, people don't think before they open their mouths, just ignore them! Sounds like you have found the man of your dreams!
Kimiwaya - glad you had a lovely time for your little one's 1st birthday! I love my son's birthdays! I'm planning his party in January already!

My DH went to the GP's this week to ask for SA, the GP sent him away and said it was more likely a problem with me and that the consultant would ask for SA tests if he felt it necessary? Anyone else had this, my GP thought DH should have his tests done? Have my internal scan date for 20th Sept, so at least things are moving forward. I'm off on holiday tomorrow, fingers crossed AF doesn't arrive on Monday it would be the nicest holiday surprise!

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Friday, August 20th 2010, 8:53am

Rm have a nice holiday tomorrow. Hopefully your consultant will sort an SA out for you.

Mayflower- sorry I crossed the other day. No matter how many kids you have if the need is there the need is there. I am so glad you have found the perfect man.x

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Monday, August 23rd 2010, 12:33pm

Just whizzing in to say hello and goodbye to Ali. I hope you can focus on your little man now and move on from the TTC journey you've been on.

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Monday, August 23rd 2010, 5:27pm

Had my last scan today, 6 very juicy ones and some smaller ones behind that they're not sure whether they'll be big enough Wednesday for EC or not! I am going home to put on the hot water bottle and spur them little ones on!!

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Tuesday, August 24th 2010, 2:29pm

Hi Louis
hope the hot water bottle worked its magic. God, its a tense time! Is it definately EC tomorrow? What time are you off in? All the best

Hi everyone else. Gemma - how was your little boy's birthday?

I've got my scan Thursday to see whether I have a polyp or not. I think I have as things normally don't run smoothly! :wacko:

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Tuesday, August 24th 2010, 2:50pm

Good luck for the scan tomorrow louis

Jen good luck thursday

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Tuesday, August 24th 2010, 7:42pm

Hi,

Off for egg collection tomorrow morning at 8.30am.

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Tuesday, August 24th 2010, 10:06pm

Good luck Louis - hope it all goes well.
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Wednesday, August 25th 2010, 7:49am

Good luck today hun- thinking of you.x

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Wednesday, August 25th 2010, 7:59pm

All went well today. 6 lovely eggies!!!! not a drop of pain or sickness, lovely

Had a little drama as when DH did his sample he accidently put his finger in the lid whilst trying to put the lid on! So he had to do it again 1/2 hour later. However, all was good with 2nd sample and so they were off to fertilise!!!

All being well, twins will go back in on Friday! Very excited.

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Wednesday, August 25th 2010, 9:43pm

Wow Louis! Good going with 6 eggs. And well done DH - do they charge extra for that :biggrin:

Glad to hear you're feeling good.

Fingerscrossed for Friday. Keep us posted.

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Thursday, August 26th 2010, 8:13pm

really bad day, had the call we all dread, none of my eggs fertilised. There are 2 they are going to leave in just incase they fertilise tonight but I don't hold out much hope

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Thursday, August 26th 2010, 8:53pm

Louis2, I'm so sorry to read your post. I really hope that the 2 they've left in fertilise tonight. x

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Thursday, August 26th 2010, 8:56pm

does anyone know the likely hood of this happening. Is it unheard of for them to perk up enough or am i clutching at straws?

Will i ever feel like i can try again or should i just admit defeat

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Thursday, August 26th 2010, 8:59pm

I don't know enough about IVF hun to say whether there's really a chance. My thoughts are though that your clinic must believe there's a chance otherwise they wouldn't have left them for another night?

As for trying again, that's a hard question isn't it? And only one you and your DH will be able to answer. For me, I knew that I just wanted to keep going until I couldn't do any more. So I did my IVF cycle just a few months after I finished my last cycle of clomid. If we hadn't been very lucky with the IVF I 'think' I would have gone again sooner rather than later. But its still all so fresh in your mind, and you need to get to the call from the clinic tomorrow before you start having to make any decisions - I hope you won't have to and that your eggs show you that miracles can happen.

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Thursday, August 26th 2010, 9:04pm

we feel like we won't to keep going to but its the money, how do you keep finding £5000 every few months? WE must have soent nearly £20'000 so far

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Saturday, August 28th 2010, 2:56pm

Louis2 so sorry to have read your last posts, did the two they left fertilise?

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Saturday, August 28th 2010, 7:37pm

No they didn't make it, the got one pronuclei but not the 2 they needed.

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Sunday, August 29th 2010, 7:55am

Louis I am so so sorry.x

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Thursday, September 2nd 2010, 9:03pm

Hi Louis
I am sooo sorry to read your news. I can't believe it. Have they given any reasons at the clinic? How are you doing?
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Friday, September 3rd 2010, 8:57am

We have been for 2 consults at bourn since this nightmare and no-one knows, possibly too high level of gonal f maybe too long down regging, maybe the antibiotics I was on i June! They can't give me a reason, maybe just a bad cycle! WE had 3 top quality blastos last time, and they messed them up by not getting them back in now they've messed my eggs up before I can get them back in

We are looking into a lap and dye at the mo to see why I conceived so easily 6 years ago but not since, I'm convinced there's scarring or stuff on tubes so want that sorted then hopefully we can do it ourselves. Trying to stay positive, but hard, we will try angain in a year but for now its the waiting game again

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Thursday, September 9th 2010, 9:32pm

Sorry its taken so long to get back to you louis. I've been away and then at work.

What did they do to not get your blastos back in?? That's shocking. How frustrating that they can't give you a clear reason now?

I've heard that lap and dye's can work like that. We had one before IVF to see what was going on (had a private consultant who referred us onto his nhs list very quickly). It could help to give you some answers or help to improve chances of conception so definitely worth the try. I found it was harder being in the dark. Have you considered changing clinics?? Good luck to you.

I've been told after a follow up scan no polyp so basically have to wait now until start a cycle and ring up to get the ball rolling for an unmedicated FET. Probably going for October - have got to start eating healthier!!!

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Thursday, September 30th 2010, 4:33pm

Just spotted this "trying again chatter thread" & that it's not been used for a while... so I thought I'd say hello all.
Hope you are all well.

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Tuesday, October 5th 2010, 7:08pm

Hi cupcake, how are you feeling about saturday nervous, excited? I've just got my referral to a consultant at the hospital for 16th November 6 week wait, but i decided it was better to wait longer and see a consultant with a good reputation, don't know if that's the right decision or not....

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Hi cupcake, how are you feeling about saturday nervous, excited? I've just got my referral to a consultant at the hospital for 16th November 6 week wait, but i decided it was better to wait longer and see a consultant with a good reputation, don't know if that's the right decision or not....

Hi Running Mum!
It's next saturday I start d/r. and yes... I'm nervous, excited, apprehensive etc etc!! I can't wait to just get started and get on with it. I hate all the waiting around, I'm much better off when I feel I'm doing something practical. Still I have to be patient eh!!

If you feel more confident seeing the doc with the great reputation, then I agree, it's better for you. It will make you more at ease when it comes to having treatment. What hospital are you with? Do you know how long you'll have to wait?

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