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Tuesday, April 10th 2007, 8:50pm

Bourn Hall Clinic Anyone???

Has anyone used Bourn Hall Clinic in Cambridge and if so what were their experiences like?
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Tuesday, April 10th 2007, 9:03pm

hopefully one of the girls will be able to help, just wana say welcome and good luck
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Tuesday, April 10th 2007, 10:56pm

I met someone having treatment at my clinic who initially went there....they ended up at my ckinic because they werent ultimately happy with them....but they had a late miscarriage so were specifically conered about immune issues.......they did say the level of montioring wasnt as good but again thats in comarison to the ARGC who monitor you daily...few clinics will match up to that elemnt of treatment.

SHe is the only one Ive spoken to....have a look at their results on the HFEA site...thye may give you a btter steer. THe Essex Fertiltiy clinic isnt that far away from there and that has excellent results and a number ofgirls on here rave about it..its also ranked it the top ten of th UK IVF clinics




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Wednesday, April 11th 2007, 8:05am

I'm interested to hear peoples opinion on bourne hall/essex fertility clinic as well.

Another close one is ISIS fertility centre.

where can I find fertility clinic rankings/scores?
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Wednesday, April 11th 2007, 10:20am

i'm using Bourn Hall as i'm doing transport IVF from James Paget in Gorleston to Bourn Hall.
i went there for an open day and its a beautiful place. as for treatment, i havent got that far yet due to ET abandoned but as i will be having FET pretty soon, i'll be there in the next month or two.
i've not actually heard any bad reports about Bourn at all. the staff are supposed to be really friendly and helpful and always there for you when you call.
my friend is PG at the moment with Bourn Hall twins (due in May) and she has only praise for them.
i'm of the "dont knock it til you've tried it" mind but i would certainly advise you to call them to go to their open days.

its good to meet people in the same area and using the same clinic. it will be great to chat to you.

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Wednesday, April 11th 2007, 4:59pm

Hi Pixiewish,

Dont know anything about Bourne Hall, but I have a friend who is going to Holly House (Essex Fertility Centre) and she is really happy there, she told me they rank no4 in the country.
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Saturday, January 19th 2008, 10:33am

If this question is even relevant anymore- or to a newbie- I used Bourn Hall and have nothing but praise for them. I felt they did everything they could to help me and make it a comfortable experience. Of course, this is the only clinic I have used so have nothing to compare with...

Feel free to PM me if you want to discuss it further or I'll answer quesions in this thread if you want.
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Saturday, January 19th 2008, 6:59pm

We used Bourn Hall they were fab and we got a first time twin bfp with icsi. xxx

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Wednesday, February 6th 2008, 3:55pm

Bourn Hall Clinic, Cambridge

Hello :wave:

*Clears throat & suddenly feels the pressure*

Right, well, maybe I should have checked what other people said about their clinics before I started to review mine so maybe I'll pop back and edit it later but in a nutshell...

We were very pleased with the service recieved from Bourn. May be I should add that this is despite 2 failed cycles- and it is the only clinic we have used.

From our first visit there we were treated with respect and sensitivity- as individuals! The staff are incredibly friendly and really try to support and put you at ease. Our treatment, options and reasons for this were clearly explained at the beginning and during the cycles. The Dr even used a football analogy to explain how my hormones were messed up- it made more sense! We were offered free councelling at any stage- we didn't use this but it may be something others would consider.

I was monitored regularly and my treatment was adapted accordingly. I felt they made an effort to include DP along the way rather than treating him as someone along for the ride as I had experienced at times in the hospital that referred us. The staff who dealt with us always appeared knowledgeable about our case. I'm sure this is because they read our notes 2 seconds before we came in but it is reassuring when someone can talk to you as individulas.

The follow up consultations were also helpful. We didn't feel rushed and the Dr was happy to answer questions about what had happened and what we could try next time to improve our chances. In our first attempt IVF resulted in no fertilised eggs and I only had 3 to start with as well as a left ovary which decided not to work. Our 2nd try was ICSI and the medication was upped. I got 9 eggs, 2 fertilised but a BFN. We are waiting for our final consultation with Bourn. As NHS patients we recieved 2 funded attempts so now we are on our own...

Although we didn't get the results we wanted we always felt Bourn did their best for us. I'm interested to read others reviews to see if they feel the same.

Maybe it's irrelevant but the Clinic itself in lovely. A gorgeous old building with wonderful views... and all the free tea, coffee, hot chocolate, etc you can drink!

As an NHS patient I can't comment on fee's etc. One of my worries was that as such we would be treated as '2nd class'. This was certainly not the case.

Erm, I went on a bit more than I thought I would. I hope it's useful to someone. I'm happy to answer questions if you have them...
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Wednesday, February 6th 2008, 4:02pm

Just read the other reviews, it seems I've gone a little OTT! I should like the Clinic Prospectus. I'm not on commission- I promise! Although I wish I was! x
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Wednesday, February 6th 2008, 9:21pm

Thanks for the review Dilly.

i'm currently doing transport IVF with james paget and Bourn. i did a fresh and fet last year but didnt get to bourn hall for either as i got no transfer.

my input to this so far is the open day Bourn laid on for us. they were so helpful, informative and answered all questions confidently, really assuring us.
and yes its a beautiful mansion with gorgeous surroundings to make you feel relaxed.

i will post back on here in mid march after this IVF cycle and let you know my first hand experiences.

here is where you can read about Bourn.

http://www.bourn-hall-clinic.co.uk
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Wednesday, February 6th 2008, 10:06pm

They do the best homemade cakes ever on their open days!!!

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Thursday, February 7th 2008, 4:43pm

Ladies I'm glad we have our priorities in order- tea, cakes, nice venue. :snigger:
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Thursday, February 7th 2008, 10:33pm

oh yeah they were the bomb i tell you. we went back for more. greedy sods :snigger:

i think that what swayed us in the end, the chef :innocent:

JOKE!! :P
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Friday, February 8th 2008, 10:54pm

has anyone else done transport ivf with bourn?
we found it a bit weird that dh had to take the eggs 3 hrs across country to get them to bourn, leave his sample and come back 3 hrs to pick me up from Gorleston.
he did say the bourn staff were really lovely.
cant wait to go there myself and have the et.
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Friday, February 29th 2008, 11:22am

i finally got to experience Bourn for the ET.
they are fab, really fab.

they are so helpful, everyone you meet wishes you luck all the time.
they didnt make me feel second class at all since i wasnt paying. you do hear of this occasionally in some places.
i was in complete agony with a full bladder and sore follies and with the help of dh and one of the nurses, they removed my smelly shoes for me. she actually touched my shoes brave girl :snigger:
the other nurse even put my gown on me because i couldnt bend down.

maybe this is common practice in a clinic of that stature but you certainly dont get attention to detail on the NHS as they are all so busy and over worked.

come on bourn girls, get on here and have a chat. you'll love it there when you go!!!
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Tuesday, April 15th 2008, 7:44pm

Hello all,

DH and I have just started treatment at Bourn Hall as private patients (messed around on NHS - took us a year to get to first gynae appointment and were then referred back to a urologist! We're too impatient to wait any longer!)

I have to agree with all of the above posts the place is great. It's going to cost us around £5000 :faint:but it's certainly been good value so far. Everyone is really pleasant, happy to help and generally make you feel relaxed and important.

We haven't started any treatment yet but I can't imagine anything less than a positive, professional experience.

babydust for everyone

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Tuesday, April 15th 2008, 10:55pm

hello fellow bourn girl

its so good to meet someone else going there.
we are few and far between.

welcome to fz. i hope we can share bourn experiences although i hope you only have to do it once.

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Thursday, April 17th 2008, 6:57pm

Hey there

I'm with bourn too....the cakes at the open day are the best!

I've found everyone really friendly and helpful, and they are also pretty good at returning calls.
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Thursday, April 17th 2008, 8:37pm

Mmmmm cakes!!

i should book another open day just for those lol
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Thursday, July 17th 2008, 11:40am

We are on our first cycle with Bourne Hall and so far, I have not had any problems with them. We are under-going IVF with ICSI - currently day 2 of my 2ww.

They give you a pack at the beginning with all the timetables and various processes and the good thing is, they tell you what you need to know when you need to know it instead of giving you too much information which can sometimes be confusing and over-whelming especially when on hormones and being forgetful! (which I have been tremendously!).

They also have a free counsellor who you can ring and arrange to have either Face-to-face sessions with or over the phone and she was really lovely - because I have had lots of problems with getting support from my family and I realised that my hubby and me are more important).

Anyway, the review!! I'll be as objective/honest as I can. We have only ever been with Bourne Hall and it's our first time so, like some of the others, I have nothing to compare to. Having said that, they were 100 fold better than our Obs/Gynae clinic at Bedford Hospital. There is a consultant there who is absolutely awful and you can PM me if you need details.

As for Bourne Hall, the site is very peaceful, it's set in a listed building, there's a small canteen which has a good selection of food, hot and cold drinks and is quite well priced. They also have quite good security there - you have to have a pass to get in and out of the various clinical areas. The waiting rooms are light and airy, with music in the background and plenty of magazines.

And I can concur that the staff are very very nice and genuine (except one nurse) but we didn't have her for anything again, she did our initial questionnaires and was a bit patronising. But it could just be I was annoyed and tense anyway!

The open day was very informative and we got a chance to see who else was on the same or similar journey to us and it made us feel more relaxed knowing others were in the same boat.

They go over the risks quite well - particualrly things like OHSS and multiple pregnancies but I also know that I trust their clinical expertise given that this was the clinic that came up with IVF in the first place so am hoping they will be a step ahead in terms of research and technique.

Throughout our experience, we felt well informed, comfortable and reasonably at ease. DH didn't come with me to all the blood tests and scans, mainly because it would have been a bit boring for him and when he's bored, I get annoyed and tense so that was okay. He came for the final baseline and for the EC and ET and I think they are most important for both of us to be there.

At the beginning, the clinic took both our pictures to make sure we are the same people at the end as we were at the beginning! And they also explained exactly what needed doing when, even writing some of the instructions down for me due to my rubbish memory.

The only problem I find is their opening times aren't very great for people who are in full time work and sometimes, it's hard to get through to the Nurse's Station or to Outpatients - that was a bit frustrating. But they always rang back when I left a message so that frustration didn't last very long. But if you're the anxious type, it might get a bit much.

In terms of the treatment, I started on nasal sprays but they didn't work and then they put me on the Suprecur injections - which took time to work but at the beginning, I had gone on holiday and put the medication in the hold of the airplane. The pharmacist explained that could have been a daft thing to do because the hold can get cold at 30,000 feet - sometimes below freezing and most of these drugs shouldn't be stored that cold so they replaced it and then my uterine lining start to go down much more quickly. I do think they should have said that - even though the instructions say to store at a certain temperature. Most people won't think of the hold of a plane being cold (I know I didn't). I would have taken the drugs on the plane with me but I forgot the clinic letter and didn't want to risk it. I did have to put the luggage in through special check-in X-ray because of the hyperdermics.

So, in a nutshell, Bourne Hall is about 8.5 to 9 out of 10 for me. I would recommend it but like most things, you have to consider all the little individual factors which might affect personal experiences.
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Tuesday, July 22nd 2008, 8:56am

Just been referred to Bourn Hall Clinic...

... for 2 'free' cycles of treatment on the NHS. I am so grateful to our consultant for referring us - I went to see him yesterday prepared to argue our case for being referred, instead of which he suggested it as soon as I sat down! I think it's because he's retiring in a couple of months so he's feeling a bit 'demob happy'!!!

Good to read these reviews about Bourn Hall. We're a good 3 months away from our first appointment so it's unlikely that we'll start any treatment until the end of the year but it feels so good to know that we're moving in the right direction at last.

Good luck ladies, here's to plenty of baby dust coming everyone's way.

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Tuesday, July 29th 2008, 3:53pm

Hello Ladies

I thought i would see how you are and to say that my partner and myself have been told that i am going to need Ivf to concieve, so on Saturday 2nd August i am going to Bourn Hall's open day to see what my options are.

I was just wondering whether anyone else is going to this open day and whether they will be taking their partners with them ?

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Wednesday, September 10th 2008, 1:22pm

Hi there,

We are struggling to conceive baby number 2 so we decided to approach Bourn Hall for initial investigations. Our 1st appt was on the 20th August and we've been a few times since for varius tests. All i can say is that they've been brilliant so far. I feel they do really care about their patients and the speed with appts and results is fantastic! We're due to find out all our results shortly and should we need treatment then we will continue paying privately for their help.

We didn't visit an open day so it is nice to find others on here that are using Bourn Hall also.

Good luck all,
LisaB xx

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Wednesday, September 10th 2008, 9:56pm

i still cant praise them enough.
ok i know we haven't got our BFP yet but the treatment so far has been tremendous.
i will be back there again in nov/dec.
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Tuesday, September 16th 2008, 11:19pm

hi Ladies,

We are at bourn hall and although we have only paid 2 visits find it really nice place hopefully we should start our treatment soon.

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Friday, September 19th 2008, 4:02pm

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Sunday, September 21st 2008, 7:58am

Hi,
I'll be having transport IVF between Ipswich and Bourn Hall clinic. I should be starting dr next month. I'll let you know what it's like.

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Wednesday, October 8th 2008, 5:33pm

Bourn Hall

Has anybody used Bourne Hall clinic newar cambridge? I'll have part of my treatment there. What is it like? Any info would be good.
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Wednesday, October 8th 2008, 5:41pm

mmmm........... I did spell the name wrong.

I wonder if there are more peple using the clinic? I'll put in my experience once I get there, I just want to be ready

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Saturday, November 8th 2008, 2:10pm

Well,

still nobody eles for this clinic except for Billie and myself.....

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Saturday, November 8th 2008, 11:21pm

i do hun but you already know that.
we can chat bourn though if you like??

i wont be over there until ET so still have a few weeks yet.

when is your ET, do you know yet?
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Sunday, November 9th 2008, 7:30am

Not 100% sure cos I might have the blastocysts if I have enough eggs. Should be around the 10th of december. Are you having your FET on the NHS?I hope to have some to freeze. I have no idea if I'm responding. I've started to panic and am convinced this first go won't work for me. So many people don't succeed, so I'm already planning ivf cycle number 2. Am I mad? I am trying to stay positive. But numbers are numbers.... It makes me feel more secure to have a plan B.

When is your ET? I have never been there. I don't know if to go an have a look before ET or just leave it. I'm not scared of hospitals anymore, I'm used to them! Strange. I can't see myself not going to ipswich hospital for one reason or another. It's become part of my life.

How long do you have to stay at Bourn after ET?

Sorry I have random questions that pop in my head ?(

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Sunday, November 9th 2008, 6:13pm

Is it better to go to london, I wonder... But i though Bourn was founded by the pioneers of IVF. I'm just being silly.... :loony:

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Sunday, November 9th 2008, 6:27pm

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Is it better to go to london, I wonder... But i though Bourn was founded by the pioneers of IVF. I'm just being silly.... :loony:


yes its true, bourn was founded by the IVF pioneers and no i dont thing london is any better. bourn have as good a rates as anywhere if we are talking numbers.

i dont think you are mad to have a back up plan but i do think you should be going into this as if its everything. think positive hun, it can work first time.

i will find out on tuesday about my ET. i get my drugs then ready to start sniffing on friday.
bourn doesnt really feel like a clinic, more like a day out.

after ET, you dont stay there for long. they leave it up to you. you can either go back and sit down and have another drink or leave straight away. you are not sedated for ET and its very quick.

they really are lovely there so theres nothing to worry about.
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Sunday, November 9th 2008, 6:33pm

maria have you got a diary?
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Monday, November 10th 2008, 6:35pm

Billie thank you,
it's nice to have someone who's had some experience of the clinic and sorry if I bothered you with all the questions it's just that some days I have very bad days if you see what I mean!

No, I don't have a diary. I'm jus too random and not so good at putting down feelings like some of you are. I keep most of it bottled up (so you can imagine how bad and anxious I actually feel). I'm too rubbish at writing basically cos englis is not my first language.

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ps- good luck on friday, but I hope we'll meet up here before then!

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Sunday, November 16th 2008, 8:45am

Billie,

you didn't tell me what happened at the clinic the other day. Hopefully nothing too serious, as you have started d/r.

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Sunday, November 16th 2008, 10:38am

oh no hun it wasnt serious, just drama.
i went to pick up the drugs and they didnt have my sniffs. they said they would send them but i was starting on the friday. anyway i just started to panic and got a little stressed with it all.
luckily they called upstairs to the fertility clinic and she had some up there.
but these little hiccups dont help do they?


my ET is scheduled for 15 dec. do you think you will be there then?
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Sunday, November 16th 2008, 11:51am

If it all goes according to schedule mine should be around the 10th.

You are right though, when they make mistakes it makes you feel like they don't care or worse that they don't know what they're doing. But I think they are human too...

How are you getting on sniffing? My injections are ok, but I've got a permanent background headache.

Doing anything nice today? Apart from going down the gym. I'm still in bed!
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Sunday, November 16th 2008, 4:38pm

I did crimbo shopping this morning and am going to get some food soon but other than that, not much.

the sniffing is going ok. I do one in each nostril in the morning and then a repeat in the evening. i dont have a clue yet on baseling as i have to get another af yet but i imagine withing the next 3 weeks.

are you taking anything for the head?
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Sunday, November 16th 2008, 8:42pm

Not really I've taken aspirin for the period pains. The hospital said it was ok to take. Paracetamol doesn't do it for me. I've also got awful spots on my jaws, I look awful!

I've had a nice doing nothing kind of day, lovely!

Have a nice week Billie and keep up your new plan,
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Thursday, November 20th 2008, 5:35pm

HI EVERYONE JUST WOULD LIKE TO SAY HELLO
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will be starting IVF soon at Bourn
am very scared!!
considering blastocysts anyone got any ideas on this.
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Thursday, November 20th 2008, 10:00pm

Hi, I'm going to Bourn as well from Ipwich. I will consider Blastos if I've got enough eggs as lots of embryo don't make it to that stage. They are meant to be stronger than 2/3 days old embryos.

When Are you starting? There are cycle buddy chatter threads that you can join. At the moment Both myself and Billie are december diamods.

I've never been to Bourn, but Billie said it's a nice clinic and its results look good if you look on the website.

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Friday, November 21st 2008, 9:16pm

yeh its lovely
been there today to see the counsellor
start the contraceptive pill on dec cycle and then the jabs 5th jan waiting for AF to arrive today or whenever so they can order up the drugs
think i signed up to the cycle buddies but i am so pants on this thing lol
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Saturday, November 22nd 2008, 7:44am

I'm a bit worried about travelling there from ipswich. I would like to go there beforehand so I know what to expect. My DP is not worried though. It's just that my e/t should be in december and I worry about the weather!

I think I saw you in one o the threads, can't remmenber which one....

It's nice to have another suffolk firend!

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Saturday, November 22nd 2008, 4:26pm

hello sharbara!!
welcome to our little bourn thread.

so you start the jabs in Jan then? Sooo exciting. I wish you all the best for you cycle.
Are you completely at bourn or transport ivf like us?


Maria hunny, how was the stimming jab?
catch up with you on the diamonds too.
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