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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:12pm

fed up today

Feeling a bit glum today.... have just found out that my bf is pregnant with her second child- after trying for exactly 1 month.......as is my cousin (who was pg as the same time as me) and is now 18 weeks pg.
I'm obviously really pleased but it's just got me down about the whole "trying again" business.
We haven't "officially" agreed to try again yet, can;t really aford it tbh, but it's jsut soo upsetting and frustrating to think that we'llhave to do it all again when everyone jut has sex, once.
just not fair
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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:21pm

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:27pm

Thanks hun- not even sure what I'm trying to say by posting- I think i've just re-rembered how unfair this whole thing is.
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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:28pm

Hi Rose,

Aww it does hurt when we learn those close to us are PG are even going for the 2nd/3rd time. I am soory to read that you are feeling down. I know that feeling all too well as I have 2 BFN under my belt. My too sisters have kids and although I love my nephews and nieces to bits I do admit to feeling like the odd one out. I guess it's a question of how you rationalize things.

But hey... I just wanted to send you a hug and let you know that it's ok too have your moments. Maybe you could go outside and feel the sun on you and that might just cheer you up some. ;)

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:31pm

sorry rose. i know what you are feeling though. 2 friends have just had their second having sex once. we are trying again. 7 mnths clomid and 1 iui so far but all bfns. doesn't seem fair. keep thinking i am not good enough as i am the one with pcos. don't begrudge them anything just want to know if it's ever going to be us. the one thing noone can tell you.
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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:33pm

Oh Lisa- thank you, I think i really had started to forget how hard the journey was, and still is for so many people. But it really does help to know that i'm not alone.

Dwarf- sorry yuo're having such a hard time too.
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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:36pm

I am sorry you are down Rose - it is so frustrating when people can just have sex once and it works. Hope you feel better soon x


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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:36pm

Rose? lol Just have to say i love your little picture of the little green bug. Sooooooo cute!!

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:43pm

I think he's cute too- he looks a bit confused and frazzled to me- just about sums up how i feel somedays!!

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:53pm

Hi rose

i know exactly how you feeling My bf is pregnant with her 5th they only bd once the month she fell It all seems so unfair

my bf talks about it non stop she is only 6 weeks gone, no tact what so ever

i go round every morning when olivia is a nursery for a coule of hours but had to make excuses today i just just couldnt stand 21/2 hours of ebay prams how sick she was during her other 4 pregnancy how she is determined to have a girl and has every bought a pink steriliser and pink baby grows already. I is just constant she knows better than anyone what we are going through and yet it feels like she is just rubbing it in on purpose

sorry to ramble i truly know how you feel

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:55pm

Aww Rose sorry you are feeling like this, it is hard, even when you have been through it once and have a child.

My BF did the same, decided to TTC and was pg within days, then was so excited to tell me she text me, I was gutted, our kids are the same age so her being able to have another easily really stung, poor Ronan had to console me I was so upset. Once I was over the initial upset I relaxed and was happy for her, and I'm really close to her DD now.

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 1:58pm

thanks zoe- some people really have no tact do they?? But some people(my mum in particlular) thinks i'm gonna burst into tears at the very mention of anything pg related and therefore just whispers (like thats gona help) that "so- and so" is pg.....or worse still- doesn;t mention it at all and keep me in the dark for fear of upsetting me..........
i don;t mind talkiing about it, i honestly dont'- but what i don;t want is to have my nose rubbed in it all the time...... :rolleyes:





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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 2:02pm

chicks- thanks hun, will reply to your pm
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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 2:38pm

Rose

I know exactly how you're feeling, it's really hard.

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 3:15pm

So har isn't it? Hope you are feeling better.
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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 5:09pm

sorry to hear you're fed up hun :(

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Tuesday, March 27th 2007, 10:43pm

Rose i know that feeling, life just doesnt seem unfair sometime hun,

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Wednesday, March 28th 2007, 10:48am

Been there, done that and bought the t-shirt ;( - everyone around me was having babies - we moved into this house shortly have Callum's birthday and started ttc #2 shortly thereafter ... all my new friends (it was a new estate so we were all new) were having babies - some even had 2 ... I had to wait for almost 6 years before I had my little miracle ;) - I know how you feel girls but just wanted to send a little ray of sunshine (Gregor) to say it will happen .. it just may take a little longer than planned :)) .

Been through ttc for so many years that I'd never put myself through all that again - it has been really really hard and sometimes I wished someone would just either say - yip one day you will have another or forget it so that I could deal with it and move on rather than being stuck in limbo land putting everything off just in case :rolleyes: - I'd love to have another but will never ttc again - although if a little surprise happened I'd been over the moon and back :P

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Thursday, March 29th 2007, 10:35am

bd just once???? If only.

The cost, and the time, and the not knowing that goes into all this is so hard. Rose, big hugs to you.
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Friday, March 30th 2007, 1:51pm

Thanks girls. it really helps to know i'm not alone in feeling like this.
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Friday, March 30th 2007, 3:23pm

Hi Rose

Just wanted to send you a big :hugs:

I know how you feel, why is it so cruel and so diificult!, :scream:
my freind told us she was pg with her 3rd a week after we found out about our miracle, All I could feel was "Great! humph " (how horrible am i) I just knew that she would go full term and we would lose our miracle, I so wish I had been wrong! :tear:
Its hurts so much to see her everyday knowing that she is where I should be now, she is due the week before our little miracle would have been with us. :tear:

Take care hun, it realy is cruel, hope your having a better day today blowkiss

Gayle
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Thursday, April 12th 2007, 8:05pm

Hi Rose - maybe its the time of year as things that I would normally be fine about are really getting to me....a colleague of DH's has just announced his wife of just 6 months is 3 months pregnant...I hardly know them...but am really brooding on it.

Our DS will be 3 in July and I will be 41....we are going for IVF in a couple of months and I don't know what I will do if that doesn't work.

I hope things get better for you....life is just so unfair.

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