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Monday, May 21st 2018, 12:23pm

About 5/10 mins, ul be waiting longer in waiting room than actually in with them lol x

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 12:35pm

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I think that's me out. Took a test yesterday morning and evening both negative.im only 8dp5dt but woke this morning to light spotting that has now got heavier and had bad cramps for about 1-2 hour.they have eased now but still bleeding. Just devasted as we really thought we had a good chance.we had icsi due to male factor and I'm still quite young, our doctor had high hopes as did we. I rang rfc they said to keep taking crinone gel until test day. Any one have bleeding with bad cramps around 8dp5dt and still go on to have a bfp? It's not looking good but OH is remaining hopeful xxx

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 12:39pm

Aww hopeful girl, hopefully it's not actually your period and just some other bleeding. It's still early enough so fingers crossed for you xxx

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 12:41pm

Dusky, I'm so pleased thinking are looking up for your little embies. Try not to stress too much about the acupuncture. Good luck for ET tomorrow xxx

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 1:09pm

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Hi Hopeful girl,,

Sorry to hear this? Like Janelle are you sure its your actual period and not some other bleeding? 8 days is still early is not? Only you know what the bleeding is like and I am not trying to give you false hope ...... but just considering other options .xx big hugs xx

Janelle- you be glad that's done for meantime xx good luck for your embies

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 1:16pm

HG I am so sorry to hear this, I have had friends in the past who have had a fair bit of fresh blood in tww still go on to get BFP. Please try to hold on to a bit of hope xxx



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Monday, May 21st 2018, 1:26pm

Definately thought it was my period this morning as bleeding was heavy (sorry tmi) and cramps were bad but cramps have eased off so I really don't know.. Thanks girls I will test on OTD but it's not looking good.

Well done Janelle fingers crossed for u rrst up amd take it easy
And you also dusky good luck for ET tomorrow. Have fingers crossed for you both xxx

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 1:29pm

Thank you for your positive words dusky..trying to hold on to a bit of hope but it's so hard..do you know if they had cramps also? Xx

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 2:02pm

Yes they did hon, just like a period starting. Don’t worry, you can’t have TMI on here, I have gone into all sorts of gruesome detail :) xx



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Monday, May 21st 2018, 3:05pm

I don't know what to say hopefulgirl. I got palpataitons reading that as the same thing happened me 4dp5dt. I was out unfortunately. Don't lose hope, keep taking the gel. X

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 5:34pm

Hopefulgirl I'm in the same boat today. Cramps this morning, sore head and a real bad back. I had light pink discharge when I wiped. I just checked again there now and I still have it but its slightly brown now.

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 6:02pm

When is OTD Carlie? If it’s gone to old blood may not be your period... I have my fingers tightly crossed for you both xx



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Monday, May 21st 2018, 6:06pm

I'm only 6dp5dt so my test day is Sunday. During my iui treatments my period for some reason always came 12 days after I triggered with ovitrelle. Today is 13 days from I triggered so I'm worried its the same this time. It's stopped now so hopefully it was just implantation but then that should last longer?

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Monday, May 21st 2018, 6:11pm

I only had a tiny bit of spotting for implantation. Hold on to that PMA xx



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Monday, May 21st 2018, 6:49pm

This 2ww is more stressful than the ivf process itself lol

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 8:50am

good luck

god luck today for egg transfer dusky xx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 10:05am

I'm out girls. So upset I can't believe it. My period came during the night.

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 10:45am

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Carlie- sorry to hear this, its so upsetting when you wanted this so badly. Be strong my lovely and concentrate on all the good you have in your life and how lucky you are to have what you have. Unfortunately this just wasn't your time but YOU WILL get your time. xxx big hugs to you.

I am 6 days post transfer and I really feel like AF is coming - I have a fibroid on my right which makes AF sorer at beginning and when AF comes its usually how I feel today so Iam not very hopeful myself. But what will be will be for me xx

take care honey and concentrate on yourself for a wee while as this process is very stressful and draining. xx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 12:55pm

Carlie sorry to hear this. I know how you feel, we are also out. Can't believe it either. Just not our time this time I guess

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 2:25pm

Hopefulgirl I'm sorry to hear that. It's just gutting. I was coping OK with it till my husband started to cry. I'm at work now and wishing I'd just rang in sick. Have you any frozen embryo's? I'm trying to find comfort in the fact I have a chance with my frozen ones but not feeling very hopeful about doing a fet after this. I just feel lost now and want to go home to my bed but work is helping to keep my mind off it a little x

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 2:30pm

Carlie and Hopefulgirl I am so sorry!! I am sending use both strength when use need it most!! Xx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 3:29pm

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HI Girls

I think i am in the same boat..... i was nearly doubled over with cramps and had to take paracetamol ..... my period arriving is very distinctive cos of the pain it causes with having this fibroid so i know when its coming...... i just cant bear this again - feel absolutely fed up. xx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 4:35pm

Princess I have my fingers crossed for you that this is just implantation pains! Is this your first ivf cycle? When are you due to test?

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 4:46pm

Hi Carlie- thanks for your message. this is my 6th go iam afraid and it doesn't get any easier. We do icsi due to male factor..... i have nothing medically wrong and pretty much every test under the sun done as i always produce good egg and our embryos are top quality. they just make the journey. I cant seem to get them to implant ... i have also been tested for ant bodies and killer cells etc, but all clear. My journey started in 2014 and i feel like i have been doing this for 50 years with no avail.
My last treatment was successful but i lost my dd at just under 6 months - no medical reason just bad luck. i sometimes feel if i dint have bad luck i would have no luck. My test date is Monday which was was also my expected due date so i really felt it was meant to be.
I am one of the most positive people on the planet with a fantastic life yet this is the only thing i have no control over. The doctors convinced me to do on 1 egg back in as it was hatching and they were convinced it was such great quality.... but i just cant stay positive at this point .,..... i know my period symptoms and i really believe its coming. I know i still have days to testing but the cramps i am having are unreal and identical to period..... they have eased off with paracetamol.
But ill keep hoping until i see that blood ,,,,,,,,,, as miracles do happen. xxx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 5:15pm

Oh princess I really hope it's not af arriving. Sound like you've had a long tough journey so far and you really could use a break. Fingers crossed x

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 5:16pm

So sorry about your news Hopeful and Carlie. Sending lots of hugs xxxx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 6:43pm

Carlie we have no frozen either, we had 6 embryos on day 3 (4 good and 2 lagging behind) then by day 5 we only had one good enough to transfer. So we are completely out. We are taking a few months out and will try again privately at the end of the year,but for now we are focusing on us. We're getting married in May 2020 so I'm going to focus on that and book a holiday for the summer. How many frozen do you have? I know my OH was the same. It's as hard on them.
Princess i really hope that isn't the case and it's just implantion. Although only u yourself knows what the start of your period feels like. I've all crossed for you. You deserve it beyond words. To go through what you have and remain so postive, your a credit. Sending lots of positive vibes to u and hoping it's not what u think xxxx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 6:52pm

I am so so sorry Hopefulgirl and Carlie, so sorry. So heartbreaking, take time for yourself and each other. This journey is so very cruel. Sending you lots of love and strength xx

Princess, I have everything very crossed for you xx



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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 7:56pm

Thanks for al your positive words and for thinking about me. I came straight home and went to Ned... Iam soo depressed. Tomorrow is. New day and I will deal with it when it comes xx thanks all xx

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Tuesday, May 22nd 2018, 9:21pm

It really is such a cruel journey. I rang the clinic and they said to keep taking the pessaries anyway and to test on Sunday. I don't see the point but. We have 6 embryo's frozen so I am thankful for that but it doesn't help. I feel more heartbroken for my husband than myself. I didn't think it would affect him so much. We have no known fertility issues other than my mild endometriosis. I know it will happen one day but I'm 35 this year so feel like I'm running out of time. We have just moved into our new house which was stressful and then my husband had an accident at work so is off for a few months so I'm thinking maybe all the stress of moving and worrying about money may have affected this cycle.
Princess you have had one hell of a journey! You really deserve to have everything work out for you and I have all crossed for you x
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Wednesday, May 23rd 2018, 8:47am

How are you Princess? X

Have they called yet Janelle? X



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Wednesday, May 23rd 2018, 10:39am

I've to call tomorrow morning to see if ET is going ahead that afternoon. Don't think I'll know any more until then, the waiting is horrible! Not knowing how my wee embabies are doing ;(
How are you feeling today, Dusky? Xxx

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Wednesday, May 23rd 2018, 10:57am

Ooo that’s long hon, good practice for the 2ww though :) Am good thanks hon, trying to remember all the do’s and dont’s xxx



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:goodluck: Janelle xxx



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Thanks hun. I'm so nervous about ringing this morning, just keep imagining that they've all stopped growing ;(

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They won’t have, they will be flourishing into gorgeous sticky embryos PMA xxx



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I really hope so. I'm trying to keep a PMA but I also don't want to get my hopes up too much x

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It is so hard isn’t it, everything is crossed for you xxx



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So AF arrived Tuesday and will start burslin sniffing 11th. Have an appointment to pick sperm and get some bloods done 1st! Getting excited now!

Janelle good luck hope you don’t have long to wait!
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Ooo very exciting Odi :)



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Phoned there and all three embryos have divided and seem to be doing well so I've yo to in this afternoon for transfer. Not sure if they will transfer 1 or 2, they didn't say. Feel like such a weight has been lifted knowing that they are doing ok.
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Fantastic Janelle!! Yay, here we go :thumbsup:



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Very excited now! :thumbsup:

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Fab Janelle!

Dusky how many days post transfer are you now?
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3dp5dt....nearly there hahaha! :)



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Dusky are you holding out for otd or will you test early?
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Otd, I’m always otd as too scared of it being wrong either wayxx



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Yesterday, 4:05pm

Well I'm officially PUPO with two little embryos. It was so cool to watch on the ultrasound, we saw the little flash of white as they put them in. So amazing.
The other embryo wasn't looking the best but they will keep an eye on it and freeze it if they can on Saturday. I've to ring on Tuesday (because of the bank holiday) to see what happened with it xxx

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Congratulations on being PUPO hon :weehee:

It is amazing isn’t it. Fingers crossed for your other wee one my lovely xxx



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Yesterday, 5:12pm

It's a weird feeling but amazing! Odd to think there's two little embryos in there now!
Yeah, fingers crossed it can be frozen, as we would get that fet on the nhs too. Have you got any frozen from this cycle, Dusky?

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