Hi Polly,
Congratulations on your success after surgery, unfortunately I am not in the same boat. The reason I had to have full lap is because both ovaries were adhered to my uterus and the endo extended quite far down under and behind my uterus especially into the pouch of Douglas (something to do with the bowel). They were actually worried that it had infiltrated and that I might end up with a colostomy afterwards. Thankfully I didn't need that and my bowel wasn't involved, both ovaries were affected and they reconstructed the right one. Afterward I was really panicking beause I read that ovaries that have been operated on sometimes don't respond as well to IVF. Weirdly enough my right ovary was the better responder, my left did hardly anything at all. I think I got most, if not all, my eggs from the right. although when they were doing my scans they could still still endo pockets on them, and that was only 6 months after the surgery. I really wish now that my consultant when I was 22 had focused more on the risk of infertility and suggested something like BCP or something. 'protecting my fertility' didn't seem a reality to me then especially when he didn't suggest further treatment or follow up. Oh well...
Keeping my fingers crossed for myself and everyone else in the hope that we ALL get our BFP.
Thanks for the input, and you're right. At the end of the day I know I'm going to try it, it might work and I'd be forever wondering 'what if' if I didn't take it. Why is nothing ever easy????