Hi Cloclo
Hun it's such an uncertain field, I doubt anyone (even an embryologist) would be able to give you a reason this happened. But don't worry about it too much, the fact that you got so many embryos, and some blasts is a good result.
My DH is the same, really low motility, very low count etc etc, were never considered for anything other than ICSI, and for each fresh cycle we have ended up with a good blastocyst. Sadly none have ended in a pregnancy, but IVF is not foolproof, in the same way that getting pregnant naturally isn't a definite every month either. But each cycle is really vastly different in my experience. In my 1st one I had 21 eggs, 18 embryos, and ended up with 3 blastocysts, 2 of which we froze. But the last cycle I only had 4 eggs, 3 embryos and 2 went to blasts, and one was a Grade 1, so it proves you can get good quality blasts with bad quality sperm. So don't worry too much about it (easier said than done I know).
Saying that though, maybe if it doesn't work (and it doesn't sound like you know that for sure yet) you can speak to your consultant / embryologist about transferring at day 3, although then you take your risks anyway.
But don't worry if it doesn't work they will have learnt alot about your cycle and will probably make you stim slower next time so you can be sure you have all really good quality eggs and resultant embies.
Good luck anyway, you could still be in for a lovely surprise soon!?
j x