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Thursday, January 7th 2010, 10:04am

Anyone in the Bury St Edmunds Area?

Hi All,



Just wondered if there was anyone attending the Bourn Hall Clinic living in the Bury St Edmunds area?
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Thursday, January 7th 2010, 11:39am

Hiya hun, I'm near-ish to Bury. I'm Mildenhall way but do tend to go to Bury quite a bit.
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Thursday, January 7th 2010, 11:48am

I live in Ipswich :xxx:

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Friday, January 8th 2010, 1:36pm

I know this may sound strange but I thought it would be nice to have a network of people in our local area to perhaps meet for coffee etc. I sometimes feel so isolated and have very few people to talk to about things. Let me know what you think.



BTW - I have been looking into meditation as some people suggest this is really good for prior and during any treatment. Do you have any recommendations? I have got a couple of things on my ipod but wondered if anyone else used this kind of thing. Just bought a book called 'Nurturing Yourself Through IVF' which seems pretty good if anyone wants to borrow it after me?
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Jessica Mae Duffety born sleeping on 9 January 2011 (21+2) - TS and HLHS
Holly and Elliot Duffety born on 16 October 2011 (25+6)
Natural Surprise - Matthew Evan Duffety born sleeping on 11 October 2013 (15+5)

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Friday, January 8th 2010, 2:00pm

I'd like that too hun. We could organise a meet for coffee or a bit of lunch if you'd like.

I dont know any real life ppl going through this so it can get a bit lonely esp when everyone of my age has had or is having a baby. Sad as it sounds, i feel left out as if i dont belong in the baby club.

I've not done meditation totally but have a few CD's that are for relaxation.

I've done Acupuncture and find that really good. I know there are a few place in Bury but i go to someone in Newmarket that does IVF protocol.
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Saturday, January 9th 2010, 3:11pm

im in cambridge....not too far from bury!
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Sunday, January 10th 2010, 8:40pm

Hi all,



I would love to meet up or whatever really...perhaps I could email you my number etc? Let me know.



I had a bad day today.....it comes and goes for me. Some days I am fine, some days I feel awful. There is always something going on in the back of my mind whatever I seem to try and do. We are looking to move at the moment and whilst there is no rush at all we have been looking at downsizing slightly. I was walking around a few smaller houses yesterday thinking okay, here are enough bedrooms for us and my other half's children but what about me....what about our child?!? I ended up getting really upset about it but wasn't able to say anything and it just snowballed. We ended up talking at length this morning when I admitted what had been bothering me and I just wish I could have said it when I felt it. It just seemed so stupid at the time.



Sorry for the outburst....it's good to get it out!
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Jessica Mae Duffety born sleeping on 9 January 2011 (21+2) - TS and HLHS
Holly and Elliot Duffety born on 16 October 2011 (25+6)
Natural Surprise - Matthew Evan Duffety born sleeping on 11 October 2013 (15+5)

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Sunday, January 10th 2010, 9:03pm

Hunny, I'll PM you with my email address, then we can chat. xxxxxx
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