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Monday, June 10th 2013, 6:58pm

Author: mollie

My husband has left me

I spoke to him today and I have told him I didn't realise what I had turned into , all I talked about was ivf. Drugs supplements no alcohol, decaf this and that. Ther are other issues also that I need to deal with my miscarriage, the death of my sister , my previous partner I found in bed with another woman so I have truat and insecurity issues. I have arranged a counselling session for myself 2moro as I finally admitted today I need help. I have ploughed on thinking I was dealing with all the g...

Monday, June 10th 2013, 5:54pm

Author: mollie

My husband has left me

Thanks Rico In four years we have 4 family deaths . 4th rounds ivf and on r 5th and a miscarriage and he also had a heart attack, I tried to explain if I have been snappy and constantly nagging and making him feel worthless it was not intentionally, He said he has felt like this for months and was in turmoil. He then said this morning he wish he have spoke up sooner and maybe things wouldn't have got this bad I have told him that he is more important to me than a baby it just took him to leave t...

Monday, June 10th 2013, 5:50pm

Author: mollie

My husband has left me

Thanks ros I have already cancelled cycle with clinic, I just feel shocked but looking back he was telling me I was just too pre occupied He is angry and feels worthless, feels that no matter what he done for me it was never good enough, I feel with the whole ivf thing I lost sight of fact that marriage should have come first. I married him for him not to have a baby. I did tell him last week that I didn't feel me anymore just the ivf woman and if this cycle failed it was time to find us again. ...

Monday, June 10th 2013, 5:39pm

Author: mollie

My husband has left me

Ladies I am devastated 2 weeks before. I am due to start DR on my immune cycle my husband has walked saying he can't live with me anymore, I came home from work he told me within 5 mins he was leaving after some discussion I thought if he was really going to leave he would have gone by now. Not realising he had already packed and his stuff was in his car. He insists there is nobody else and he just can't live with me and feels that he has tried and nothing more he do. He let me book flights to L...

Saturday, June 1st 2013, 8:16am

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

lalabeans Yep taking crinine gel sounds right 2 days before ET as you will be having a 5 dt as for ravenclaw you would have taken yours the day of transfer as it must have been a 3 day transfer. can i ask ravenclaw do you have any auto-immune issues hun ? Ravenclaw as for the use of the ultrasound when ET takes place alot of clinisc differ as well as doctors in both Origins and the RFC they didnt use ultrasound, yet my cycle in Barcelona they did i actually found it reassuring seeing the cathete...

Friday, May 24th 2013, 11:17pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

hi ladies hope ur all well Cool girl good luck with this cycle hun, plenty of time for the side effects to kick in yet Karen welcome to the site hun x Bakergirl hows the sniffing going sorry to hear about your miscarriage. x Missyg how you feeling ? hi to everyone else xxxx love mollie xxx

Monday, May 20th 2013, 8:07pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

MissyG Thinking of everyone currently sat in airport waiting on flight to London another round of immune treatment 2moro I can feel the pain already ;-( Mollie xxx

Thursday, May 16th 2013, 6:56pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

MissyG and Glm09 Ladies good luck on testing , I told myself after each cycle no more here I am about to start my 5th cycle ;-) you will know urself when U have had a enough, we are strong women and we always find the strength we need from somewhere xxxxx Anybody else wanting to join the FB group we are now up to 9 members PM me if interested xxx

Monday, May 13th 2013, 10:33pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

Ravenclaw I don't want to give you false hope Hun, but yes I bleed before OTD and tested negative. I bled for 3 days heavy like AF and even clots ( sorry if TMI )I continued with progesterone tested on OTD still negative , I was devastated 2 weeks later after complaining to hubby about sore boobs and feeling faint I decided to test again, not sure why low and below it was positive. I was scanned and there was 2 sacks, scanned a week later revealed one embryo with heartbeat and one empty sack. So...

Monday, May 13th 2013, 2:57pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

ladies We are now up to 6 members on the FB page anyone else interested PM me Come on ladies

Monday, May 13th 2013, 2:54pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

Missy G I am good thanks back to London next week again for LIT Treatment. I am with the London fertility academy, DR Gorgy. I decided after 4 failures I would look further a field. The progesterone supplements mimic early pregnancy symptoms as well as AF type pains. As cath said she has pimples too. The 2nd week is always the hardest Hun , I have always caved in and tested early but it makes you worse cause then you google the chances of the HPT being wrong so you do yourself no favours in the ...

Monday, May 13th 2013, 1:50pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

Missyg Can I ask what day transfer you had? Af type cramps can be a good sign and Pimples are due to the extra hormones in your body not necessarily AF, please don't give up hope at the minute you are PUPO. Try to remain positive Hun, easier said than done I know , but look how far you have come to get to this stage don't give up on those wee embies. Snuggly I did acupuncture with 2nd and 3 rd cycle, 2nd cycle was BFP but ended in M/C 4 th cycle I tried maya massage but it ended in BFN Found the...

Monday, May 13th 2013, 1:41pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

Ravenclaw Sorry to read your post Hun I hope you are continuing to take crinone gel and can I ask have you tested, my 1st cycle I bleed 5 days early bfn 2nd cycle I bleed 3 days before HPT and was like a period if not heavier I bleed for three days!!!!!! but I tested positive, later miscarried at 10 weeks 3 rd cycle bleed 5 days early bFN 4 th cycle I didn't bleed until I stopped progesterone , but due to early bleeds previously I was given extra progesterone each day It was discovered Certain c...

Saturday, May 11th 2013, 9:56pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

FJW13 Welcome to the site Hun , I am sorry I can't answer your question about time from letter of acceptance until treatment as its been a while since I cycled at RFC but one of the lovely ladies should be along soon to answer your questions x Mollie xxxx

Saturday, May 11th 2013, 11:05am

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

Cath i have read alot ladies with blasts testing early, how many days past transfer are you hun? x Coolgirl i dont see any reasons why you couldnt fly during sniffing hun x Ravenclaw the crinone gel mimics pregnancy symptons and cramping can be caused by gel also x Good luck to all those on the Was thinking of a Sunday afternoon tea as somewhere for us to all meet up , as sunday seems a good day for most people Anybody any ideas of where ? mollie xxx FB page has five members now Mollie, Cath240...

Friday, May 10th 2013, 8:52pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

Hi ladies We are now up to 3 members on FB group yippee xx

Thursday, May 9th 2013, 9:23pm

Author: mollie

Belfast clinics treatment feedback and chat

Come on ladies Facebook secret group is up and running now with cath being the first member , who else is up for it pm me Mollie x




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